Stay In Control Of Your Anger

Anger is a completely normal, usually healthy, human emotion. But when it gets out of control and turns destructive, it can lead to problems — problems at work, in your personal relationships, and in the overall quality of your life. And it can make you feel as though you're at the mercy of an unpredictable and powerful emotion.

Messenger of Allah sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam said,

"The strong man is not one who is good at wrestling, but the

 strong man is one who

controls himself in a fit of rage.''

[Al-Bukhari and Muslim]

A Very Touching Story about Anger !!

While a man was polishing his new car, his four year old son picked stone & scratched lines on the side of car. In anger, the man took the child's hand & hit it many times, not realizing he was using a wrench. At the hospital, the child lost all his fingers due to multiple fractures. When the child saw his father with painful eyes he asked 'Dad when will my fingers grow back?' Man was so hurt and speechless. He went back to car and kicked it many times. Devastated by his own actions, sitting in front of the car he looked at the scratches, Child had written 'LOVE YOU DAD. Next day that man committed suicide...

Always remember that things are to be used and people are to be loved, but the problem in today's world is that,
People are used and things are loved. . . . 
Try to control your Anger to avoid Big Regrets in life....

Control your tongue and your actions when you are in anger!! 
For every minute you are angry, you lose sixty seconds of happiness.
If you kick a stone in anger, you'll hurt your own foot.

May Allah help us all to control our anger !! Aameen !!